What should i do? PLS GIVE ME ALOT OF ADVICE!!!!! i need more than one answer and serious answers pls!!!!!?

ok i need an unbias opinion about whats going on in my life right now. ok let me start by saying that i got arrested back in april for drugs that werent mine but were in the car i just bought the month before. i got pulled over for a tail light and they asked to search my car. i said yes and they found the drugs. so i got arrested. but the story doesnt end there. so anyway... i end up in a holding cell and i find out from my best friend that my ex boyfriend and the father of my two yr old daughter came to her house and took my daughter without my permission. well i got bailed out after about 24 hrs and i went home. my baby-daddy"s grandparents told me i would never see her again. well i got out of jail that sunday and that thursday i went and got my daughter cause there was no custody agreement between my and her father so as soon as he put her i my hands i went to leave. well that monday after i went and got her i was served papers saying that phoebe was to be removed out of my custody immediately cause of some bruises that she did to herself. she is 2 yrs old and not the most graceful kid. well they said that it was neglict and child abuse. well we went to court and he got temporary custody of here in may 4. well come june 8th we had a hearing officer meeting to decide custody of the child. well in the hearing officer meeting my ex stated that he knows im not abusing phoebe but that he believes my best friend and her husband is... he knows they would not hrm a hair on phoebe's head but that was his excuse to get phoebe. well i live with my best friend and stuff and she has been my best friend for 6 yrs. she has been in my daughter's life for as long as my daughter has been born. she is her godmother. well anyway... my ex told me that he would give me custody of phoebe if i were to move out of my friend's house... he knows that even though i have a job i dont think i would be able to do it by myself. well my best friend told me that the only way i can get my daughter back was if i moved out in my own place. which is good in theory but what most people fail to understand is i am terrified to be by myself and it could take months to get phoebe back and on top of that ricky could re-*** on the entire thing stating that he wants me to be on my own and to show prove for ____ months. i am getting my own place this saturday more than likely and my best friend is going to help me with gettin stable in my own place but i am scared and worried about how all this is going to play out.... i am the poster child of the phrase "anything that can go wrong will go wrong and usually does go wrong bad." so pls any smart ppl out there. help me!!!!!!